Talking with Children about Violence

12/12/2023

Talking with Children about Violence

To the degree that we look clearly and compassionately at ourselves, we feel confident and fearless about looking into someone else's eyes.
Pema Chödrön, American Buddhist Philosopher

Whether it’s political or personal, we continue to witness the many ways children are harmed by violence, directly or indirectly. Often, children pick up on adult media, conversations and anxiety about violence. When children share their thoughts or fears, verbally or otherwise, our response matters. Being prepared for those conversations will help children learn that trusted adults are there to help them navigate the biggest feelings and challenges in their lives.

To help you feel ready for these conversations, our Exchange team is pleased to offer a new Coffee Break Reflections on the topic, based on the Exchange Reflections article and discussion guide, "Talking with Children about Violence." Take a few moments to explore the power of the simple question, "Can you tell me what you heard?" This invites children to verbalize frightening ideas or information and gives adults the chance to correct or contextualize what children have heard.

Available on the Exchange Hub, each Coffee Break Reflections is designed to help integrate reflective practice into our busy lives by offering a short excerpt from an article and one question to reflect on.

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